Saturday, October 27, 2007
| mademoiselle 10/27/2007 04:01:00 PM |
a penny for your thought :DI was watching channelnewsasia moments ago
and they were discussing this issue on
Monogamy.I think its pretty interesting and I'd wish to share
Generally, woman would think that
man are the gender that tend to be more disloyal. while men do agree, but also think the otherwise.
Basically, men feels that when a marriage goes wrong
there's definitely a reason which caused the crack line.
the blame should not be pushed to one party but both.
One of the reason is, married woman tend to be too naggy. How so?
When a man reaches home from work, they tend to question them
why are they working so hard? not spending adequate time with the family,
a tinge of suspicion here and there.
Yet, men work so hard because money don't come free.
woman never nag about the surplus money they got to splurge
but yet nag about husband working so hard and not spending time with them
I don't deny it's true, because my mom does that too.
frankly speaking, it's pretty much of a turn off.
Personally I feel that the cause of all these would be a lack of communication
between both husband and wife.
I feel that generally, woman are very insecure and sensitive animals.
and they very much need
assurance. Just like my mom :D
On the other hand, Bernard Lim said that
Men are very egoistic animals (I totally cant agree more).
and they need to be stroked, encouraged, praised, to boost their ego.
a good example of ego right now is
ABC says:hmm.. do you have my number?
❤rachel says:am i obliged to have your number?
ABC says:hmm.. well.. we can stay in touch that way
❤rachel says:what is msn for then?
to save their ego, they rather refrain from asking
FOR your number then to just ask you if YOU have HIS number.
It's a huge turn off to me, very.
My mind was running wild with thoughts on this issue moments ago.
but all those thoughts just disappear into thin air now.
to conclude,
Monogamy is not a
passé .
oh, i forgot to mention, they'd preach about younger ladies going for older men
or rather married men to satisfy their material needs.
and this really disgusted me.
Because I have no doubts of women's capability
of earning a living that is as equivalent to men.
I have couple of friends saying they only wish is to marry a rich man
and have a good life after that.
That is what I call
passé as modernised women
are as capable as men and I dont see why they cant satisfy their material need themselves.
:)
?Mademoiselle Rachel